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Be brutally Honest - Congruence

What most guys try to do is hiding their intentions with a girl by becoming his friend or acting as if they don´t want to date her or have something with her. Girls are very social creatures and can sense if you are being incongruent with your intentions making you look less confident and not worthy in her eyes. However, it's also known that showing too much interest or being desperate is not going to get you girls either because you're killing the drama and intrigue or her not knowing if you are really into her. So you may be asking yourself then what the f*** should I suppose to do? If I don't show interest but I want her then is done, if I show my intentions then the game is over. The key here is giving a little pieces of interest and other times taking those pieces back and show her indifference. You have to be honest with her and your actions shoud match your intentions. If you want her then give her subtle signs of interest; if you don't like something she said or...

You gotta like the process more than the results of it PERIOD

When I started learning the art of seduction I was very excited to see the results of it like getting plenty of sex with beautiful women and having amazing adventures with them. However, although those results can be achieved, the process of getting there is painful, full of obtacles and very confusing sometimes. You actually have to make a commitment with yourself to put up with those failures and bumpy roads, feel them, and focus on them more than the final results. If you want something big, think first if you will be able to stay focused regardless of the rejections and bad days.  It's the only way you will become succesful and achive whatever you want in life. Don't skip suffering, don't pretent that rejection isn't going to hurt you, don't hide your desires to have women indulging in porn or alcohol, don't blame anyone for your current situation, don't skip improving yourself and knowing you have many aspects to change. Make your emotions help you in c...

Never Complain - Be a badass

I was the typical guy who just complained about anything bad that happened in my life until I realize that I was being a wuss. Instead of focusing on complaining I started to realize that time is limited and that you should use every second wisely trying to become a better person even when you don't feel like it. Complaining is a total waste of time because by doing so you just don't fix anything and instead you feel worse than before. So start to realize that anything that is out of your control doesn't matter to you, it's just part of life. If a girl flakes on you, then fine go on to the next one. If someone cuts you off in traffic, it's OK because that person should not affect your inner peace. If someone looks at you wrong or talks trash behind your back, then it's perfect because you are important. You can't expect everyone to behave properly or do things the right way, it's none of your business, so why ehen bother complaining about something that ...

STAY CALM-STAY COOL-DON'T REACT-RESPOND INSTEAD

I remember when I was at my house with some friends and there were two girls that they have invited over. One girls was really hot and I wanted to meet her. However despites my efforts to initiate a conversation with her she kept rejecting me and acting as if I didn't exist. I remember that hot girls always test guys and give that I-don't-give-a-f*** actitude. It's just part of the game. Instead of getting angry and start feeling bad and rejected, I kept it cool and figured out a way to proceed patiently. So as she noticed that her shit test didn't affect me a bit, she actually started to drop her guard and act more friendly. So I approached her and start a conversation without any hurt feelings or revange for her having acted that way towards me. I gave her that vibe that I wasn't affect by her reality and that my reality was strong enough to keep calm in that situation. The conversation flowed pretty well and suddenly I was kissing her. What do you think have hap...

BE SPONTANEUS WHEN ASKING FOR A DATE

What most guys do when asking beatiful girls for a date is telling them in advance when the date is going to be. Most of them plan the date, wax their car and ask their friends for places where to take her. They tend to get crazy constantly thinking about what they are going to talk about, how they should behave, what clothes they should dress, they actually complicate things. Beautiful girls are used to seeing this kind of behavior, they have hundreds of guys asking her out for a date a week before or days before. REMEMBER: BEAUTIFUL GIRLS HAVE A VERY TIGHT SCHEDULE, THEY ARE BOMBARDED WITH INVITATIONS FOR EVENTS, PARTIES, REUNIONS, WEDDINGS, NIGHT CLUBS, TRIPS AND SO ON .  So when you are spontaneus and ask her out the same night you want to see her, she will be shocked, it will amaze her and as you know women like spontaneity, they are curious about it, they love it and crave for it.  So I'll give some tips on how to ask her out for a first date or even a second date. ...

What to do if she fades or stop texting/calling you?

We all have been through this common situation: a girl dissapears after a while when everything seems to be ok and you think she likes you, but unexpectely she fades away and doesn't text you back. You feel confused and wonder what went wrong or what you did to cause this situation. Well be ready because I'm going to reveal why she dissapeared and what you can do about it. First of all, most of the time she will dissapear for the following reasons: 1. There is someone better at playing the game and he has caught her attention so she put you in stand by mode 2. Probably she needs some time to think about getting more emotionally involved with you. She may be out of a relationship recently or wants to have some space to think. 3. She may be testing you to see if you are needy and look for her approval 4. She may want you to be more persistent so you will take her seriously 5. You haven't created enough attraction so she wants you to show her that you're more inst...

TRADITIONAL PICK UP VS BAD BOY GAME

TRADITIONAL PICK UP The father of modern seduction is obviously Mystery. He has developed a kind of step-based program to pick up girls. These steps are briefly described in the following sentences: 1. Attraction: The  first steps when trying to get a girl is to attract her. Getting her attracted to you means making her notice you and consider you as a potential lover. You can attract a girl by displaying the following traits: Preselection : It means that when women see you with other girls they automatically consider you to be a potential lover.  Leader of men : It means that you always know how to lead your friends, your group or any other person. You know the best way and how to inspire others to follow you Protector of love ones : It means to take care of others. Girls love a man that is always there to help her when she faces any problem.  Successful risk taker :  You take risks in order to win. You are not afraid of losing.  Willingness to emo...

DON'T GET OBSESSED OVER A GIRL - CHANGE YOUR MINDSET

When I started seeing improvements in my game, I got to seduce more beautiful women. However, there was a problem: I got obsessed with the first attractive woman that I met. Well you must know that women don't like to be the center of attention, instead you should be the center of attention for her, that's the only way to have a healthy relationship and create longer bonds between you and her. The problem of falling in love too soon is that you become needier and that actually turns women off inmediately. It's incogruent with the traits that you displayed when you first met her. So I will offer you a couple of solutions to this problems. First: REALIZE WHY  YOU NEED HER APPROVAL OR ATTENTION. Maybe you are just beginning this seduction path and you feel that she may be the only beautiful woman that you will ever meet. WRONG! There are thousands of attractive girls and it doesn't matter what country/city/town you live in, you will definitely find a lot of them. Secon...

STEP 1: INNER GAME-HOW TO BE MORE CONFIDENT

Quote of the day: Don't be afraid to go out there and fuck what everyone thinks - Zyzz (famous bodybuilder) Before approaching a girls, before making friends or forming a group of friends, before becoming an entrepreneur you should work on your inner game. And let me tell you something very important: Confidence is like a muscle, if you don't work it then it will start to become smaller and smaller, but if you put a lot of effort into it, it will get stronger and bigger. How do you become more confident? By getting out of your confort zone, whether the experience is a good one or a bad one, always learn from it. By detaching yourself from the opinion and thoughts of others. Don't let people control your emotions or feelings By becoming the best version of yourself everyday. Take care of your body, your health, your thoughts, relationships, your beliefs, your finances. By having a porpuse in life or at least be in the process of finding out about it. By having emo...

The purpose of this blog

As you may problably know women are creatures completely different from men when it comes to selecting a sexual partner. No wonder why most people seay men are from Mars and women are from Venus. This blog intends to give a full understanding of what a woman wants a man to be like. Probably you are not bad at picking up women and you want to improve your skills then this guide will help a lot. On the other side if you are alone and have a hard time trying to take a woman to your bed then  this guide will do wonders to you. The simple fact that you are trying to learn this stuff and continue disciplined through time differentiates you from millions of men that live a frustrated life. I must warn you though! you may be probably eager to learn all these techniques and tips but as time goes by you will get bored and will remember it just as a entertaiment. How do you stay focus? This is probably the most important question, even more important that knowing how to pick up women. It's ...