What to do if she fades or stop texting/calling you?

We all have been through this common situation: a girl dissapears after a while when everything seems to be ok and you think she likes you, but unexpectely she fades away and doesn't text you back. You feel confused and wonder what went wrong or what you did to cause this situation. Well be ready because I'm going to reveal why she dissapeared and what you can do about it.

First of all, most of the time she will dissapear for the following reasons:

  • 1. There is someone better at playing the game and he has caught her attention so she put you in stand by mode
  • 2. Probably she needs some time to think about getting more emotionally involved with you. She may be out of a relationship recently or wants to have some space to think.
  • 3. She may be testing you to see if you are needy and look for her approval
  • 4. She may want you to be more persistent so you will take her seriously
  • 5. You haven't created enough attraction so she wants you to show her that you're more insteresting and fun to be with
  • 6. She got bored because you didn't move things foward, she thinks you are afraid.
  • 7. You may have been very direct and physical so she felt like an easy girl and she doesn't want you to see her as that
  • 8. She only dated you to not feel lonely and wanted to have some fun, so she isn't looking for anything else.
Ok so now that you know the main reasons why she dissapeared you should realize what you did wrong. Is it worth insisting on her? Well probably, it entirely depends on you whether you think she has some traits that many other women don't. However it doesn't hurt anybody to try again and see if she wants to reengage the connection that you two had. Before telling you how to get her attention back to you I want you to take into account the following sentence:

"NOT EVERY GIRL IS MEANT FOR YOU AND SO YOU ARE NOT MEANT FOR EVERY GIRL"

Sometimes it just won't work out, accept it, digest it, life is simply like that. In most cases I highly recommend that you move on and try to date other girls. Belive me that you will definetely find much better girls wich are much more interesting and avaliable for you. Don't get me wrong, of course you should try to get her back but do it because you really find something unique about that girl not because you just want to have her for the simply matter of it without any good reasons other than sex. It's not worth your time persisting if the only thing you want is to go to bed with her. There are millions of other girls wanting to have sex with you without any troubles, you just have to go out and meet them. 

Nevertheless, I'm going to tell you what to do to get her attention back:
  • If she suddenly dissapears for God's sake DO NOT TRY TO CALL HER OR TEXT HER INMEDIATELY TO ASK HER WHY SHE DISSAPEARED. Stay calm, relaxed make her notice that you are not affected by her dissapearance. I recommend that you dissapear at leat two weeks to contact her again. Meanwhile try to date other girls, try to post photos of you with other girls and having fun. You just have to make her wonder why you are not affected by her idiference towards you. After two weeks if she didn't contact you again then initiate the conversation softly as if nothing happened. What if she doesn't text me back? Then you have two ways to proceed: 
  • 1. Be direct and tell her that you wanted to spend more time with her and you are wondering if she would like to meet up with you someday that week.
  •  2. Wait for two days and text her back again as if you didn't notice that she didn't respond. Do this a couple of time and if she remain indifferent then forget it, it's not worth your time. 
  • It's important that she notices that you are dating other girls, but do it carefully so she doesn't notice that you are doing it on purpose. Post photos with her but as if she was your friend, nothing romantic but instead a little bit ridicoulus so you leave her wondering whether she is your girlfriend or not. REMEMBER LEAVE HER WONDERING.
  • Post photos of you doing funny things like going to the beach, riding a bike, going hunting and other stuff. 

BEFORE CONTACTING HER YOU SHOULD WAIT AT LEAST TWO WEEKS AND SEE IF SHE WANTS TO GO OUT WITH YOU. THE PURPOSE OF POSTING PHOTOS IS TO GET HER ATTENTION AND MAKING HER WONDERING IF YOU HAVE FORGOTTEN HER 

IN MOST CASES IF YOU DID IT RIGHT THEN SHE WILL DEFINETELY TRY TO CONTACT YOU IN ANY WAY. DON'T RUSHLY GET BACK TO HER. WAIT A FEW HOURS AND RESPOND AS IF NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. 

IN THE WORST CASE SHE WILL NOT TEXT YOU OR CALL YOU SO CONTACT HER AND BE DIRECT. 

IN THE WORST OF THE WORST CASES SHE WILL NOT RESPOND TO YOU SO YOU CAN KNOW BE CALM AND LEAVE HER. 

Anyways keep on living your life and improving yourself, meet new friends, meet new girls and you will suddenly forget about it. ALWAYS LEARN AND WONDER WHAT YOU DID WRONG,.

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