STAY CALM-STAY COOL-DON'T REACT-RESPOND INSTEAD

I remember when I was at my house with some friends and there were two girls that they have invited over. One girls was really hot and I wanted to meet her. However despites my efforts to initiate a conversation with her she kept rejecting me and acting as if I didn't exist. I remember that hot girls always test guys and give that I-don't-give-a-f*** actitude. It's just part of the game. Instead of getting angry and start feeling bad and rejected, I kept it cool and figured out a way to proceed patiently. So as she noticed that her shit test didn't affect me a bit, she actually started to drop her guard and act more friendly. So I approached her and start a conversation without any hurt feelings or revange for her having acted that way towards me. I gave her that vibe that I wasn't affect by her reality and that my reality was strong enough to keep calm in that situation. The conversation flowed pretty well and suddenly I was kissing her. What do you think have happened if I was reactive and angry? Right. I was going to end up without anything and even if I haven't kissed her, I would have felt pretty well anyways because I didn't depend on her reactions.

So I highly recommend that you think it twice when facing a hard situation with a girl. Think with you head and not let your feelings get in the way. I know it's impossible to not feel  anything. Yes you may feel a little bit angry or confused but the most important thing is to find out a way to control those feelings. I usually try to concentrate in other things and have fun with my friends, or I go outside to take some air and think about an strategy to get the girl I like. USUALLY I DON'T THINK ABOUT THE HARD SITUATIONS THAT SHE PUT ME THROUGH, INSTEAD I THINK ABOUT THE BENEFITS AND ALL THE SEX THAT I WILL BE ABLE TO HAVE WITH HER. Withstanding a little bit of her bitch shield is nothing compared to the feeling that you will get when you kiss her or have sex with her. THE RISK IS DEFINETELY WORTH IT. 


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