DON'T GET OBSESSED OVER A GIRL - CHANGE YOUR MINDSET

When I started seeing improvements in my game, I got to seduce more beautiful women. However, there was a problem: I got obsessed with the first attractive woman that I met. Well you must know that women don't like to be the center of attention, instead you should be the center of attention for her, that's the only way to have a healthy relationship and create longer bonds between you and her. The problem of falling in love too soon is that you become needier and that actually turns women off inmediately. It's incogruent with the traits that you displayed when you first met her. So I will offer you a couple of solutions to this problems.

First: REALIZE WHY  YOU NEED HER APPROVAL OR ATTENTION. Maybe you are just beginning this seduction path and you feel that she may be the only beautiful woman that you will ever meet. WRONG! There are thousands of attractive girls and it doesn't matter what country/city/town you live in, you will definitely find a lot of them.

Second: WHY DO YOU THINK SHE IS SO SPECIAL AND DIFFERENT. Many attractive women won't meet your standards. They are not angelical creatures as the world wants you to see them. Most of them have messy lives and only thinks about their looks and status and please DO NOT DATE PARTY GIRLS. these girls are not worth your time not even as LOVERS.

Third: YOU MUST HAVE A LIFE AND DO EXCITING THINGS SO WHY IN THE WORLD YOU HAVE TIME TO GET OBSESSED OVER ONLY ONE GIRL. Go out, explore the world, do fun activities, hang out with your friends, go fishing, go hunting, create new habits, go to dance lessons, improve your speech, go to the theather, read, excersice, chat with other girls, eat healthy, start a new business, meditate, approach girls on the streets, meet new friends and much more activities. You get it right?

Fourth: YOUR LIFE WILL NOT IMPROVE BECAUSE OF HER,  YOU DON'T NEED HER, YOU JUST LIKE HER. Understand the differences between needing and liking someone. You are complete without her, you have everything or at least you are looking for a purpose and whether she is with you or not it doesn't matter. Of course I know you like her. Yes she is beautiful and she may have a few special things. But she is not perfect and if you expect that your life will improve thanks to her then you are not following the right path. Take into account that MOST RELATIONSHIPS ARE TEMPORARY.

So if you ever find yourself thinking a lot about a woman, please STOP and REALIZE WHY YOU ARE GETTING OBSSESED. Then, start a new activity and forget it. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD DUMP HER OR CUT THE INTERACTION, IT'S OK TO FEEL THINGS FOR HER BUT IF THOSE THINGS ARE HOLDING YOU BACK FROM IMPROVING THEN STOP IT AND GIVE HER SPACE.

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