27 STEPS TO BECOME A PICK UP ARTIST

After getting your life in order which basically means being financially independent, being confident, being free from people ´s opinion of you, taking care of your appearance and health, quitting bad habits, being more sociable, being not needy, acquiring certain alpha male traits. Once you have done that then you can actually start to learn techniques and tips on how to seduce women. You have just built the foundations of seduction, and without a solid and stable foundation, there is nothing that can easily bring you down. It´s like boxing and though it sounds crazy to compare them, they have a lot of similarities. To prepare for your first fight to have to get into the best shape of your life. You have to develop resistance, endurance, strength, agility and mental toughness. These are the foundations of your boxing career and when talking about seduction all the basic traits that I mentioned above are your foundations, namely being social, not caring what others think of you, acqu...

I must admit that I was socially retarded (a cruel yet realistic description) and unaware of how social dynamics works. Being social is more about knowing what not to do rather than trying to befriend everyone. I'm going to describe here a few tips on how to improve your social life and how to start conversations with people.  However, to start socializing you must stop any form of addiction, problems or low self-esteem that bothers you and that mess with your social life.   The first and the most simple tip is to just spot some activities that don´t contribute to your overall growth as a person. For example, masturbating, watching porn, watching too many movies, surfing the web without learning important stuff, watching click bait videos on youtube, getting too caught up in others people´s opinions and life, not doing anything, taking naps without being tired, waking up late, chatting too much without any specific reason and the list can go on forever, but you get the messa...

So you may be wondering what in the world masturbating has to do with getting girls or improving your life. I mean masturbating does not do any harm and it's just a way to relieve myself. You may think that, but there is a fine line between masturbating for just getting pleasure once in a while and masturbating compulsively. I'm not going to get into much detail right now but the chemical reactions that occur in your brain while masturbating may be addictive if not handled properly. The bottom line is that: YOU GET USED TO IMAGINARY SITUATIONS, SEX AND GIRLS IN ORDER TO GET PLEASURE SO YOU GET LAZY, PROCRASTINATE AND YOU DO NOT PURSUE YOUR GOALS OR BEAUTIFUL WOMEN BECAUSE YOU CAN EASILY OBTAIN THAT SAME MOMENTARY PLEASURE FROM JERKING OFF. But seriously trust me when I tell you that you may trick your brain into believing that whacking off is the same as real sex, however, the chemical reactions of real sex are much more powerful and fulfilling than masturbating. Y...

There are certain traits that allow us to become the best version of ourselves. I've talked about bad boy traits that can be very beneficial when trying to seduce girls. Now we are going to talk about alpha male traits that can be extremely important when trying to not only succeed with women but also succeed in your life. The root of the problem begins with poor fathering and bad habits acquired by children who have been raised by single moms or by beta male fathers. It was my case, I was raised by a single mom with a very messy lifestyle. My mom was very obnoxious and easily irritable. So I grew up having to comply with my mom demands always obeying everything that she said, always having to repress my emotions and feeling, always scared of making a mistake and being punished by it. So basically I grew up being a beta male, always ashamed of myself every time I made a mistake and having to care about what other think basically relating to pleasing my mom. This is the pure truth a...

Ok, so you may have probably read a lot of helpful advices and tips on how to successfully seduce girls, BUT the problem of having too much info in  your head is that you get confused pretty easily. Should I start practicing approaching? Should I practice asking for numbers? or maybe it'd be better if I start to work out and change my outfit... I can go on forever with this list of questions. The problem is that many students don't have an idea on how to start. I know that you have to work on yourself first, become the best version that you can be, change your bad habits, etc. However, we want to see some results too, we want to go on dates with girls. The best strategy to start is to apply a holistic approach hitting the three most important areas of your life: money, health and relationships.  Don't just focus on going out to clubs and parties to meet girls or just getting stuck on improving yourself and leaving behind your social life. Remember if you want to date the be...

Oh damn it!! I really hated when my brain started to torment me with thoughts about my ex-girlfriend. Although it really pissed me off, I just could not stop thinking about her. No matter what I did, the memories kept coming on and on. I'm very sure that you feel identified with my previous situation and that you had to suffer through a lot of pain when you broke up with your girlfriend. I must tell you that what you went through or what you are currently going through (if that is your case) is pretty normal. Without getting too much scientific here, I will give you a brief explanation about what causes those mixed emotions. The human brain creates links between positive emotions and what causes it, in these case it is your ex-girlfriend. So when that person dissapears your brain enters in an withdrawal state where it wants those great feelings back but you are not giving them to it so you feel sick. The problem here is that it takes some time to recover because your brain have to ...

I have to admit that first dates can be weird and very uncomfortable, especially when you are starting to see a lot of women. It's hard to know what is going to happen and how your date is going to react to your approaches, advances and overall your game. Though you have been practicing having great conversations with girls and you already know how to handle first dates, things will get out of control sometimes wether it's your fault or hers. It happens to the best and you should not take it very seriously. Before I give you some advices on how to deal with dates that went wrong, I must teach you how to view dates from a pick up artist perspective. For that I will explain what a date is and what it isn't. »A date is not a commitment where the two of you are destined to like each other and hit it off. »A date is simply an arrangement to see if you two can connect so you  can start a relationship wheter is a sexual or a romantic one. »You and her have the right to l...

Things will definitely go wrong sometimes and It's like a cliché saying it, but most people don't understand how good these experiences are and how to take advantage of all the benefits that they come with. If you do something over and over again without getting nowhere then it's your fault, stop blaming others for the lack of success that you have in your life. For example, if you keep getting rejected and getting flaked on multiple times, don't you think for a minute that there must be something that you are doing wrong? Blaming girls will not produce any results much less getting depressed and angry. Instead go over the steps you take to pick up girls and question every move and word that comes out of your mouth. Are you being clingy, desperate or rude? Are you moving things foward or getting stuck? Are you giving or taking value? Are you confortable with yourself or do you consider yourself a looser? . Start fixing your problems as soon as possible, try new thing...