Bad experiences equals good teachers
Things will definitely go wrong sometimes and It's like a cliché saying it, but most people don't understand how good these experiences are and how to take advantage of all the benefits that they come with. If you do something over and over again without getting nowhere then it's your fault, stop blaming others for the lack of success that you have in your life. For example, if you keep getting rejected and getting flaked on multiple times, don't you think for a minute that there must be something that you are doing wrong? Blaming girls will not produce any results much less getting depressed and angry. Instead go over the steps you take to pick up girls and question every move and word that comes out of your mouth. Are you being clingy, desperate or rude? Are you moving things foward or getting stuck? Are you giving or taking value? Are you confortable with yourself or do you consider yourself a looser? . Start fixing your problems as soon as possible, try new thing...