Be brutally Honest - Congruence

What most guys try to do is hiding their intentions with a girl by becoming his friend or acting as if they don´t want to date her or have something with her. Girls are very social creatures and can sense if you are being incongruent with your intentions making you look less confident and not worthy in her eyes. However, it's also known that showing too much interest or being desperate is not going to get you girls either because you're killing the drama and intrigue or her not knowing if you are really into her. So you may be asking yourself then what the f*** should I suppose to do? If I don't show interest but I want her then is done, if I show my intentions then the game is over. The key here is giving a little pieces of interest and other times taking those pieces back and show her indifference. You have to be honest with her and your actions shoud match your intentions. If you want her then give her subtle signs of interest; if you don't like something she said or did then tell her and show indifference; if you are not in the mood for something don't try to act as if you are happy to make her feel better.

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