You gotta like the process more than the results of it PERIOD

When I started learning the art of seduction I was very excited to see the results of it like getting plenty of sex with beautiful women and having amazing adventures with them. However, although those results can be achieved, the process of getting there is painful, full of obtacles and very confusing sometimes. You actually have to make a commitment with yourself to put up with those failures and bumpy roads, feel them, and focus on them more than the final results. If you want something big, think first if you will be able to stay focused regardless of the rejections and bad days.  It's the only way you will become succesful and achive whatever you want in life. Don't skip suffering, don't pretent that rejection isn't going to hurt you, don't hide your desires to have women indulging in porn or alcohol, don't blame anyone for your current situation, don't skip improving yourself and knowing you have many aspects to change. Make your emotions help you in changing your life and learn to know if what you feel is really neccesary or just a wrong feeling. Once you accept that suffering and obstacles are part of life, something we can't skip, then you will start to notice changes in yourself. Please remember that if you want to be happy you have to be sad before.

In the following list I wrote 5 harsh but true things you will have to withstand while becoming a succesful pick up artist:

>Women will put you through tough test to see how powerful you are, and I guarantee you that you are going to fail a lot of them and once you do that the game is over.
>Rejection is unavoidable even when you are a master pick up artist, but rejection for women is a temporary situation.
>Once you get to date girls or make them your girlfriends you will lose a lot of them and you will suffer wondering what you did wrong.
>There will be moments when you are going to feel like a badass and other that you are going to feel alone and depressed
>Although trying and applying many tips and advices you are not going to see significant results for a lot of time

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