TRADITIONAL PICK UP VS BAD BOY GAME

TRADITIONAL PICK UP
The father of modern seduction is obviously Mystery. He has developed a kind of step-based program to pick up girls. These steps are briefly described in the following sentences:
1. Attraction: The  first steps when trying to get a girl is to attract her. Getting her attracted to you means making her notice you and consider you as a potential lover. You can attract a girl by displaying the following traits:

  1. Preselection: It means that when women see you with other girls they automatically consider you to be a potential lover. 
  2. Leader of men: It means that you always know how to lead your friends, your group or any other person. You know the best way and how to inspire others to follow you
  3. Protector of love ones: It means to take care of others. Girls love a man that is always there to help her when she faces any problem. 
  4. Successful risk taker:  You take risks in order to win. You are not afraid of losing. 
  5. Willingness to emote: You are able to make her feel a lot of types of emotions. You make her happy, desperate, afraid, sad, excited, horny...
You can display any of these traits by stories, photos, and the best: real live.


2. Confort: In this step you two share stories and personal information. Likes, dislikes, dreams, careers, job, friends, music, food,  movies and much more stuff.
This step is very important to actually create a much deeper conection between you and her. This step makes her feel secure and gives her reasons to have a more meaninful relationship with you. If you just want to have sex with her you should not get stuck too much time in this steps but actually jump to the seduction stage.

3. Seduction: In this step you introduce topics about sex. Your kino(touching) start to be more sexual and kisses begin to last longer. If you have done all the steps above well then you should not have any problem when having sex with the girl. Something call LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE may happen and you should be ready for it. Do not take too seriously what a girls may say just keep on doing it softly and gently

BAD BOY GAME
There is another way to actually pick up woman and that is the bad boy game. Bad boys are guys that go for what they want without hesitation and don't waste time with something that does not go anywhere. They are highly sexual and adventurous. They never put a woman on a pedestal and make her his world. They are confident and project that in everything that they do. From the way they dress to the car they drive there is always a signature that says I'm bad. These guys are very successful with woman but their relationships tend to be very unstable. They also like to break the laws and get into trouble often. So I'm not encouraging you to become one of these guys but instead to incorporate some of their traits into your life. Their game cosist basically in ups and downs. They are very unpredictable. So instead of following a step by step game as the one presented above they usually try to create confort and sexual tension. Take into account that they skip the attraction part of the Mystery game, however, their attraction trait is to be willing to emote their girls. Their game is basically described as following:

CONFORT BUILDING (DOWN): In this stage bad boys usually get to know the girl, is similar to the confort stage in Mystery's method however this stage is not linear. They stay in this step until noticing someting about the girl that they like so they proceed with the following step:
SEXUAL TENSION (UPS): When his girls less expect it a bad boy may change the confort stage and begin to sexualize with her. He can say something like: Sorry I wasn't listening, I was looking at your face and could not concentrate. This makes her feel really horny and emotionally receptive. And after a while a bad boy may get back to the confort building stage and repeat this process ultil the girls shows enough signs of interest to get physical.  


WHICH ONE IS BETTER?

I've tried both types of games and find that if you want to be more sexually aggresive then you should focus on the bad boy game. On the other hand, if you just want to take it a little bit more slowly and make her your girlfriend then the Mystery method is what you are looking for. Each game style has it advantages and disadvanatages is up to you which one makes you feel more comfortable.

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