How to deal with first dates that went wrong?



I have to admit that first dates can be weird and very uncomfortable, especially when you are starting to see a lot of women. It's hard to know what is going to happen and how your date is going to react to your approaches, advances and overall your game. Though you have been practicing having great conversations with girls and you already know how to handle first dates, things will get out of control sometimes wether it's your fault or hers. It happens to the best and you should not take it very seriously.

Before I give you some advices on how to deal with dates that went wrong, I must teach you how to view dates from a pick up artist perspective. For that I will explain what a date is and what it isn't.

»A date is not a commitment where the two of you are destined to like each other and hit it off.

»A date is simply an arrangement to see if you two can connect so you  can start a relationship wheter is a sexual or a romantic one.

»You and her have the right to leave or end the date whenever you want. If there is something that piss you off about her and it's disrespecful don't hensitate to finish the date as soon as possible.

»A first date should not be something serious like going out for dinner in a expensive restaurant.

»A first date must be something casual and informal  and short like going for a cafe or an ice cream.

»You should not expect a first date to be perfect and go the way you want

»You should aim for the first date to be good enough to be given the chance for a second date.

»Sometimes just one date is not enough to see if there is a spark between the two of you. So many things can happen that relying solely on the first date to judge if the two of you like each other is not totally right.

»Probably on the first date she can act up or become emotional, however as we know women are very sensitive human beings so your goal should be to put her on a favorable state.









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