STOP TRYING TO GET LAID EVERYWHERE YOU GO
After getting your life in order which basically means being financially independent, being confident, being free from people ´s opinion of you, taking care of your appearance and health, quitting bad habits, being more sociable, being not needy, acquiring certain alpha male traits. Once you have done that then you can actually start to learn techniques and tips on how to seduce women. You have just built the foundations of seduction, and without a solid and stable foundation, there is nothing that can easily bring you down. It´s like boxing and though it sounds crazy to compare them, they have a lot of similarities. To prepare for your first fight to have to get into the best shape of your life. You have to develop resistance, endurance, strength, agility and mental toughness.
These are the foundations of your boxing career and when talking about seduction all the basic traits that I mentioned above are your foundations, namely being social, not caring what others think of you, acquiring alpha male traits, going to the gym, dressing the best you can, joining interesting activities and hobbies, having mental stability, being financially independent and so on.
These traits and skills with serve you as the backbone for your transformation. So to give you an example, imagine a boxer going to the ring lacking any of the aforementioned skills whether agility, endurance or mental toughness. If he, for example, is not strong enough his punches will not knock out his opponent. Or maybe he does not have mental toughness then after the first hard punch, he is going to feel afraid and throw in the towel. It´s exactly the same with seduction.
Let´s say for example that you are not sociable, then she (your opponent) is going to think of you as a weirdo that doesn´t have the basic skills to have a normal conversation and does not know how to get along with people. Another example may be if you do not take care of your appearance then she is not going to trust you because if you do not take care of yourself then how can you take care of her, plus it´s disgusting watching someone with trashy clothes, bad breath or very unkempt hair. Or if you are afraid of her opinion of you then after the first rejection, critic or test you are going to fly away strengthening her opinion of you as a coward. You must be very prepared to win this battle. She wants to find reasons not to date you, then your mission is to block any objection or misconceptions of you by being prepared and knowing how to carry yourself very well.
One of the most important commandment if you want to call it that, is to stop trying to get laid everywhere you go. It´s a very common mistake between guys to just go everywhere and to be always thinking about getting laid. WOMEN CAN SENSE IT, THEY ARE MUCH MORE SOCIALLY AWARE THAN US AND THEY CAN SENSE EVERYTHING THAT WE DO, IT´S ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO HIDE OUR INTENTIONS. Women are tired of men that just want to bang them and use them. I challenge you just to start a conversation with a beautiful woman without any hidden intentions, just to know if you two get along with each other. So when you do not have any goals in the interaction you are free to express yourself as you are, you are free to show her your real side, you are free to act to say whatever you want. You don´t have to be constantly hiding your intentions and doing everything with the purpose of getting laid. Just by not expecting anything from an interaction you rate of success with skyrocket tremendously. UNDERSTAND THAT JUST BY DOING THIS YOU WILL SEPARATE FROM 99.9% OF GUYS OUT THERE, THEREFORE YOU WILL BE SPECIAL TO HER. She is finally able to find a real MAN with whom to have real conversations and have a really good time and guess what, just by providing that you are going to get a lot of sex in return because she will want more of you and your prize is going to be a lot of sex.
It sounds counterintuitive but many things in seduction don't make sense because it´s not a science with rigid rules. Just by controlling your emotions and feelings and projecting yourself as a man who is not needy you are going to start seeing a lot of progress. Women will look at you more, independently of your appearance. You will be a rare breed of man for her, the kind of man she wants in her life. So I challenge you to go out with your friends to parties, events, concerts or any activity and just hang around and have some fun. Do not feel the pressure of getting girls or getting laid. Don´t feel that pressure.
These are the foundations of your boxing career and when talking about seduction all the basic traits that I mentioned above are your foundations, namely being social, not caring what others think of you, acquiring alpha male traits, going to the gym, dressing the best you can, joining interesting activities and hobbies, having mental stability, being financially independent and so on.
These traits and skills with serve you as the backbone for your transformation. So to give you an example, imagine a boxer going to the ring lacking any of the aforementioned skills whether agility, endurance or mental toughness. If he, for example, is not strong enough his punches will not knock out his opponent. Or maybe he does not have mental toughness then after the first hard punch, he is going to feel afraid and throw in the towel. It´s exactly the same with seduction.
Let´s say for example that you are not sociable, then she (your opponent) is going to think of you as a weirdo that doesn´t have the basic skills to have a normal conversation and does not know how to get along with people. Another example may be if you do not take care of your appearance then she is not going to trust you because if you do not take care of yourself then how can you take care of her, plus it´s disgusting watching someone with trashy clothes, bad breath or very unkempt hair. Or if you are afraid of her opinion of you then after the first rejection, critic or test you are going to fly away strengthening her opinion of you as a coward. You must be very prepared to win this battle. She wants to find reasons not to date you, then your mission is to block any objection or misconceptions of you by being prepared and knowing how to carry yourself very well.
One of the most important commandment if you want to call it that, is to stop trying to get laid everywhere you go. It´s a very common mistake between guys to just go everywhere and to be always thinking about getting laid. WOMEN CAN SENSE IT, THEY ARE MUCH MORE SOCIALLY AWARE THAN US AND THEY CAN SENSE EVERYTHING THAT WE DO, IT´S ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO HIDE OUR INTENTIONS. Women are tired of men that just want to bang them and use them. I challenge you just to start a conversation with a beautiful woman without any hidden intentions, just to know if you two get along with each other. So when you do not have any goals in the interaction you are free to express yourself as you are, you are free to show her your real side, you are free to act to say whatever you want. You don´t have to be constantly hiding your intentions and doing everything with the purpose of getting laid. Just by not expecting anything from an interaction you rate of success with skyrocket tremendously. UNDERSTAND THAT JUST BY DOING THIS YOU WILL SEPARATE FROM 99.9% OF GUYS OUT THERE, THEREFORE YOU WILL BE SPECIAL TO HER. She is finally able to find a real MAN with whom to have real conversations and have a really good time and guess what, just by providing that you are going to get a lot of sex in return because she will want more of you and your prize is going to be a lot of sex.
It sounds counterintuitive but many things in seduction don't make sense because it´s not a science with rigid rules. Just by controlling your emotions and feelings and projecting yourself as a man who is not needy you are going to start seeing a lot of progress. Women will look at you more, independently of your appearance. You will be a rare breed of man for her, the kind of man she wants in her life. So I challenge you to go out with your friends to parties, events, concerts or any activity and just hang around and have some fun. Do not feel the pressure of getting girls or getting laid. Don´t feel that pressure.
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